LIVE LIFE LIKE A BLESSING...

Waking up every morning is a blessing, which even people in some corners of the world are unable to experience.Live your life like a blessing and be grateful for each day instead of being dejected or unhappy about your misfortune.You are responsible for your life and you can't keep blaming someone else for the dysfunction in your life. It is said that "If we live our life like a blessing we know the our purpose to live a life with focus." Focused people invest most of their time in living a positive life instead of spreading negativity and criticizing others. God has given this life as a blessing and every life is backed by a purpose so we have to identify what our purpose on Earth is instead of  falling down because of hurdles in our way to reach that purpose.  Sometimes people are dealing with something worse inside and end up getting into depression and anxiety, it's not bad anxiety or depression happens when you think that you have to figure everything out all at once. But that's the real test in your life you need to breathe and stay strong and ultimately you become calm.It is rightly said that " We need to learn to want what we have not to have what we want, in order to get stable and steady happiness."

Our life is happy or cheerful only because of some fun-loving people around us like our parents,bunch of specific people who seem to be idiotic but are super caring and loving. At times when our parents decide something for us we take them for granted and end up being in that scenario, there are also some instances when we end up taking people around us for granted and doesn't realize their value and impact on our lives. When we realize their value it's so late that the person who once cared about you will eventually get tired and won't be back. So be grateful for each and every component which makes your life as a blessing instead of chasing other people or thing which were never meant to be in your life and eventually will end you being alone. It's good to be grateful for the life instead of being in regret later.It is beautifully said that "Be thankful for what you have, you'll end up having more and if you concentrate on what you don't have you'll never ever have enough." Life is not only about yourselves but instead we should be kind and helpful for the one who don't have something in abundance which we might be having no matter what as it is nicely expressed like "To fight for those who can't for themselves, 
To always share my light. 
With those who wander in the dark, 
To the love with all my might."
So ending up to a note that the moment you start acting like life is a blessing, it starts feeling like one.

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EXPECTATIONS...

It is often said that "Expectations hurt you the most and leads you nowhere." But what leads us to expectations is the "Attachment" as most of our troubles stem from attachment to the things that we mistakenly see as permanent. Since everything started as nothing initially we were strangers then we became friends I saw someone understanding me, but in real being fake was the real trend!!! Undoubtedly, a person comes in your life when no one is there in your life to listen to your daily curiosity and madness, they become one of the closest one's in your life and you feel happy and become jovial whenever you get the presence of that person, there comes a point you start feeling attached to that person and  "There is when we start getting the vibe, the sensation we are unable to describe. You desire the life to go this smooth, but this doesn't be the life's soothe!!"

Sometimes we expect too much from others, because we would be willing to do that much for them. Attachments to a person and making them important is a beautiful part but the pleasure in this beauty sparkles when the same person manage to give you the same importance."It is only perfect when efforts are from both the sides."One sided effort then will hurt, it'll hurt very real. 

The messages being ignored, the calls getting lesser, the secrets getting vanished! The reason you will be hurt is that you were being attached to the person who was distant with you, to the person you were paying attention ignores you and you were busy making time for that person who was too busy for you!! Sometimes we give too much importance and show so much care for someone who doesn't even look out for us like the way we do. "It's not their fault, it's our fault that we get too attached. Burning our self day by day by day, finally getting our feelings detached..." At the end stick to one's who shows the interest in you they might be your parents, your true best friends and your fun crew.Spend your life that you deserve with a cheerful face and a happy heart, rather than just shredding apart...

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MOTHER...

Mom,Maa,Mumma,Aai,Thayi,Amma-Multiple languages,multiple names but one heart which always care for her child and protect him/her from all the difficulties and odds by being the protective barrier. From her first touch we experienced affection,happiness,care and protection beyond our ability to express. A mother is the most important person in everyone's life as she's the person who sacrifices almost everything to see her kids and family happy. She's like an angel on  earth sent by the God to give birth,nourish and help kids into a successful adult. It is said that Mothers have a Psychic bond with their child which most of the times helps a mother to know whenever the child needs her and she's the only one which can catch our lies only by having a look into our eyes but she never let us know about that.In our busy lives we always to tend to forget to  appreciate the sacrifices our mothers make and cannot have time to at least talk few words with her for all the small and big things which makes her more lovable than she already is. It is said that "Flowers bloom to give happiness to others." Similarly A Mother is  like a flower that  blooms to give joy and happiness to her kids.
Mothers are not just who give birth to a baby but those who adopt,foster or nurture a kid are also a mother and possess motherly nature and feelings towards the kids. Lord Krishna had two mothers one who gave birth to him and the other one to whom he was handed and was taken care of, though she was a foster mother to him but the motherly love and felling was same."Motherhood has a very humanizing effect as everything gets reduced to essentials." The sacrifice and the efforts taken by a mother are rarely acclaimed but their love and care is so unconditional which don't demand anything in return. I can't compensate the sacrifices and care my Mother showered on me but i can just share a short poem for all the caring and beautiful Mother's
"You are the oxygen of my life,

On which my life thrive.

You are the one who has made capable for my dream.

You hear my heart and had heard my screams.

Blessed to have a guardian and a guide,

On those days when I cried."

We always talk and write so much about our mothers but never talk enough to her so at the end we cannot sum up the word Mother and all her sacrifices but as a sense of gratitude and to appreciate her 24/7 availability instead of showing love to our mother on specific days  we all can take some time maybe an hour or so to talk to her regularly which can make her also happy and satisfied...

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YOUTH OF THE VALLEY...

The youths in many cities have freedom to express their views and are fortunate enough to have basic fundamental rights, but the youths in Kashmir are almost deprived from all their rights and this make them live in dark. Due to growing number of antisocial activities in Kashmir the province is under curfew most of  the times and the schooling and normal routine of kashmiri youth have been disrupted. The various policy of government which have been proved beneficial in other parts of the country was agitated by the Kashmiris and the youth agitated by pelting stones and bombarding on the security personnel who were deployed for their security from antisocial elements, these encounter with the security personnel have resulted in loss of  more than 150 lives of the agitating Kashmiris. As time passed slowly the educated kashmiri youth who had a very bright future turned into militants and were joining an anti-India insurgency after some time the number of missing youth in the valley increased and it was later on realized that the youth were brainwashed and were attracted towards antisocial activities and joined antisocial groups which indulge in terrorism.

The issue is going on for more than a decade from now and has became a source of vote bank for the political parties but deep down the people especially the youth of the valley have suffered due to that and many of the kashmiri families have shifted to some other part of  India for a better future of their teenage kids and to live a safe life. This had loose their belief on the government and they didn't took   part in the elections by giving up their voting rights, which resulted in many youths attracted to antisocial groups and many kashmiri youths were the main mind behind antisocial acts which had led to loss of lives of army personnels. It is said "One rotten apple spoils the whole barrel" similar to that due to few people the whole Kashmir lives under curfew and many are deprived from their rights. Kashmiris describe a sense of daily humiliation together with the feeling of suffocation by a conflict that shows no hope of immediate improvement. The whole scenario once said by resident of valley stated as "The beauty of Kashmir is appreciated by many but the inner issue which led to the darkness in the lives of people in the valley don't bother anyone." Thus to sum up many democrats and lawmakers states that abrogation of article 370 can be one of the solution towards the development of kashmiri youths, but the people still in the current era are unable to speak up their views and raise their problems due to a thought of life threat to them or to their family. Do the Kashmir crisis be resolved in future? When will  the youth in the Valley live a normal life and their energy be channelised for the development of Kashmir? Do give Ur views...

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Females of 21st century...

In the mid and late 20th century there was killing and burying of female infants and increase in rate of female foeticide in many parts of India as people should feel that it was a burden for the family, being the male dominant society people use to value the importance of female less and didn't knew that the infant which they buried or killed can give shade to the whole generation. As it is beautifully said that "They tried to bury us, but they did not know we were the seeds which will grow and give shade to whole generation." As time passed there was change in the mentality of people and except few most people were of the thought that if you educate a male you educate a male, but if you educate a female you educate a generation. Slowly and steadily the dawn of 21st century reduced the forcibly death or female foeticide and there was increase in rights of females equal to the males. The females in 21st century now aren't restricted to household or family duties but the 21st century have made females much more independent rather than being dependent on anyone. It is said that behind every successful man there is always a women but behind every successful women there are just hardships and difficult consequences she faced during her journey. In order to provide females with equality that is equal rights, equal treatment, equal opportunities and equality in every sense as compared to males. A movement called the feminism began.

The feminism movement was so successful that females were given equality in many fields but there were some feminist who took the movement to some different path and were so hypocrite that they started discouraging and commenting on their fellow females. It was rightly said that " Feminism is  about giving women choice, feminism is not a stick with which to beat other women with." There are still some orthodox and low mentality people in the 21st century to whom the character of female is decided by the length of her dress. But  its the choice of women what she want to wear and in what she feels comfortable, the size or length of her dress does not depict her character its just defines the low mentality and narrow mindset of a certain set of people. Due to people with such mentality females become victims and are discouraged, as said by the a famous american journalist that " Though we have the courage to raise our daughters more like our sons, we've rarely had the courage to raise our sons like our daughters." 

Since women cannot control all the events happen to them but they can decide not be reduced by them and can rise fighting all odds. Laxmi-the acid attack survivor, Deepa karmakar- the Olympic gold medalist, the courageous lawyers, television anchors,athletes and many other women like these start revolutions by simply existing. All these women who succeeded in various fields by facing different difficulties are a perfect example for the quote " Hope rises like a phoenix from the ashes of shattered dreams." Females are no less than males in any sense may it be talent,skills or hard work  instead in the current era females are better than males in many aspects. A female poet have wonderfully depicted that how a female rise through all odds of the society as:

"You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still,like air, I'll rise.''
Thus females today in 21st century should get both gender equity and equality in order to increase the growth and development and to bring a change in the mentality of people who discouraged and devalued the worth of females.....

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A VOTE CAN DECIDE THE FATE OF THE NATION...

Like every normal holiday election day is not a holiday to enjoy but to cast a vote which can decide that in future you will enjoy or suffer. It is said "THE BALLOT IS STRONGER THAN THE BULLET". This year due to the increased awareness among the voters there is an increase in the number of voter coming out and vote. Till now wherever the elections were conducted across India the stats shows an increase in the number of voters as compared to  the previous Lok sabha elections. Elections are basically not just about who votes but it is more about who doesn't vote. It is beautifully said that YOU CAN EITHER VOTE BY VOTING OR VOTE BY NOT VOTING. IF YOU DON'T VOTE,SOMEONE ELSE'S VOTE COUNTS MORE. The ignorance of one voter in a democracy can cost the security and future of all.As compared to previous Lok sabha polls both women voters and women candidates were given more encouragement and reservation.Everyone should vote according to their own conscience ,as to what is best for the nation and should not consider other factors like caste or religion in that. It is rightly said that if we vote based on community,caste or religion we are making a mockery out of democracy. A vote is an immense privilege to decide who should conduct the governance of the nation which should not go in vain so each one should evaluate the past five years and then cast their precious vote.'Freebies for votes' is not the the way but instead each one of us should vote by  thinking of a long-term solution for the well being of all. To sum up there is a short poem which depicts the current scenario, 

here comes the most awaited day which will let us know how our future will sway.

The duffer, the bluffer and the man with the muffler, which one of these men will we have to suffer.

They might have the seats the two-seventy two, but the country belongs to me and to you.

And we are a billion plus, at the end of the day the onus is on us.

New beginnings...

There is always a reason for a new beginning sometimes you know the reason and sometimes you don’t. Sometimes you and someone else were only meant to share a moment of time with each other, sometimes friendship and relationships are not built to last forever. These people just enter our life for a purpose or to teach us a lesson, maybe you both needed to learn something from each other that no one else would teach you at that time and suddenly you just know its time for something new and trust the magic of beginnings. In life you will fall apart out with people you never thought you would , get betrayed by people you trusted with all your heart and get used by the people you would do anything for. As there are exception to all things there are exception to this too but such exceptions rarely occurs. But life has a beautiful side to it.💟😇 You will get loved by someone you never thought you have, You need to learn from your blunders to start a new beginnings. It is never too late to be what  you might have been… From new friendships with people that will establish meaningful and stronger relationships but the few ones remain constant❤❤…All these can help you overcome things you never thought you would get over. Everyone have some chapters in their life that end with some people at some point of time in life. But be patient and grateful in knowing that the very best part of your book is still under process and is yet to be written…