It is often said that "Expectations hurt you the most and leads you nowhere." But what leads us to expectations is the "Attachment" as most of our troubles stem from attachment to the things that we mistakenly see as permanent. Since everything started as nothing initially we were strangers then we became friends I saw someone understanding me, but in real being fake was the real trend!!! Undoubtedly, a person comes in your life when no one is there in your life to listen to your daily curiosity and madness, they become one of the closest one's in your life and you feel happy and become jovial whenever you get the presence of that person, there comes a point you start feeling attached to that person and "There is when we start getting the vibe, the sensation we are unable to describe. You desire the life to go this smooth, but this doesn't be the life's soothe!!"
Sometimes we expect too much from others, because we would be willing to do that much for them. Attachments to a person and making them important is a beautiful part but the pleasure in this beauty sparkles when the same person manage to give you the same importance."It is only perfect when efforts are from both the sides."One sided effort then will hurt, it'll hurt very real.
The messages being ignored, the calls getting lesser, the secrets getting vanished! The reason you will be hurt is that you were being attached to the person who was distant with you, to the person you were paying attention ignores you and you were busy making time for that person who was too busy for you!! Sometimes we give too much importance and show so much care for someone who doesn't even look out for us like the way we do. "It's not their fault, it's our fault that we get too attached. Burning our self day by day by day, finally getting our feelings detached..." At the end stick to one's who shows the interest in you they might be your parents, your true best friends and your fun crew.Spend your life that you deserve with a cheerful face and a happy heart, rather than just shredding apart...
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