Monday, April 29, 2019

A VOTE CAN DECIDE THE FATE OF THE NATION...

Like every normal holiday election day is not a holiday to enjoy but to cast a vote which can decide that in future you will enjoy or suffer. It is said "THE BALLOT IS STRONGER THAN THE BULLET". This year due to the increased awareness among the voters there is an increase in the number of voter coming out and vote. Till now wherever the elections were conducted across India the stats shows an increase in the number of voters as compared to  the previous Lok sabha elections. Elections are basically not just about who votes but it is more about who doesn't vote. It is beautifully said that YOU CAN EITHER VOTE BY VOTING OR VOTE BY NOT VOTING. IF YOU DON'T VOTE,SOMEONE ELSE'S VOTE COUNTS MORE. The ignorance of one voter in a democracy can cost the security and future of all.As compared to previous Lok sabha polls both women voters and women candidates were given more encouragement and reservation.Everyone should vote according to their own conscience ,as to what is best for the nation and should not consider other factors like caste or religion in that. It is rightly said that if we vote based on community,caste or religion we are making a mockery out of democracy. A vote is an immense privilege to decide who should conduct the governance of the nation which should not go in vain so each one should evaluate the past five years and then cast their precious vote.'Freebies for votes' is not the the way but instead each one of us should vote by  thinking of a long-term solution for the well being of all. To sum up there is a short poem which depicts the current scenario, 
here comes the most awaited day which will let us know how our future will sway.
The duffer, the bluffer and the man with the muffler, which one of these men will we have to suffer.
They might have the seats the two-seventy two, but the country belongs to me and to you.
And we are a billion plus, at the end of the day the onus is on us.

Saturday, April 20, 2019

New beginnings...

There is always a reason for a new beginning sometimes you know the reason and sometimes you don’t. Sometimes you and someone else were only meant to share a moment of time with each other, sometimes friendship and relationships are not built to last forever. These people just enter our life for a purpose or to teach us a lesson, maybe you both needed to learn something from each other that no one else would teach you at that time and suddenly you just know its time for something new and trust the magic of beginnings. In life you will fall apart out with people you never thought you would , get betrayed by people you trusted with all your heart and get used by the people you would do anything for. As there are exception to all things there are exception to this too but such exceptions rarely occurs. But life has a beautiful side to it.💟😇 You will get loved by someone you never thought you have, You need to learn from your blunders to start a new beginnings. It is never too late to be what  you might have been… From new friendships with people that will establish meaningful and stronger relationships but the few ones remain constant❤❤…All these can help you overcome things you never thought you would get over. Everyone have some chapters in their life that end with some people at some point of time in life. But be patient and grateful in knowing that the very best part of your book is still under process and is yet to be written…

Monday, April 15, 2019

Three sides of a person...

As we all believe that there are two sides of a coin that is the heads and tales, but in reality there are three side of a coin the heads, tales and the edge of the coin. Similarly we know two sides of any person one side is the person people see in public and the other side is which his close friends and family only knows. But apart from these two sides there is a third side too which no one have encountered yet and the person himself knows about it and mostly he wants to keep it within. Talking about the first side it is a side everyone seems to be in when they are between a lot of people mainly the unknown public so it's more like a more of an introverted side and an extroverted side to some extent, this is the side by which the  people generally portray your character, as they don't know the much of you and their opinions wont matter to you either. This is  mainly the side of yourself which everyone knows, I have my own personal instance like I'm super shy and introverted when it comes to any unknown person regardless of he or she  being friendly with me, i just can This side is basically the side which everyone shows in order to keep the other two side a secret in front of general crowd or other friends. The second side is the side which you show in front of your selected specific folks, this is basically the side of yourself which you show only to your close friends and family. This side shows the 80% of yourself which you choose to share with your family and close friends, due to this they tends to know things before you express or converse with them. The second side can be a more of an extroverted side and an introverted side to a minimal extent. As you can talk to your closed ones mainly your friends anything and at anytime, so this side helps an individual to share their stuffs with his close people or their soulmates. Basically there are lot more stuff which most of us can't share with your family specifically😅😂 in my case I have a limited bunch of selected fellow companions who knows almost everything about me as I can share a lot more stuffs with them which I can't with other people and are always a solution to my major problems, they the ones whom I trust and believe the most. Everyone has one or more such companions or soulmates💝💗... The third and the last side is the one which only you knows and no other people may it be your fellow companion or family knows about this side of yours. This is the side of yours which no one knows about and usually don't come out but when it comes out it can be devastating. The third side can be either an extreme side at a different level or can be a strange different side. Usually the person everyone sees seems to be a fun-loving jovial person in front of his close companions but deep down inside his heart there might be an emotional person which no one have encountered but when anyone sees it's shocking for others to see such a side as it might be a whole new person for them at that point of time. Similarly when a person become aggressive or angry due to some reason and nobody of his close people had seen such a change in his personality and it can be termed as a different personality or the different and new side of that person... It is said that these three sides are like three personality of a single person which changes as per the people he meets. Therefore to quote on this the Japanese  say  You have three faces: The first face, you show to the world. The second face, you show to your close friends and family. The third face, you never show anyone which is the truest reflection of who you are.

Friday, April 12, 2019

Little things...

Great things are done by series of small things bought together but most of the times we underestimate such small or little things. Usually some little stuffs are worthless to some people  but they mean a lot to others. A conversation with someone special can make the day of an individual but this won't be such special to some other person. The fresh coffee, sunshine, morning walks, blooming flowers are some of the simple but yet the glorious pleasures of life. Sometimes we get so caught up in trying to accomplish something big, that we fail to notice the little things that give life its magic.The little things which that you consider your weakness are actually the things that people treasure most about you. Now a days making friendship will be small thing for many people out there but shy and introvert people especially like me it is the little yet tough task and can make me think twice about various situations which in reality won't appear. May be you hate that you care too much... Or that you wear you heart on your sleeve... But seriously some people think that's the best thing about you and such little things take up the most room in our hearts. Be faithful in small little things because it is in them that your strength lies and while it seems small but the ripple effect of such stuffs are extraordinary. Most of the people will term it like "The little things???" "The little moments???", But in reality they aren't little and can have huge impact on somebody's life. When people have something in abundance the importance or value of such stuff becomes little to them but such little things can eradicate someones hunger or can make someone's life better from the worse. We all have different little things that make up who we are, so we should not underrate such things and there is no need to change those little things. But we can choose who we share them with.... "Little things is thus nothing but a soft and gentle reminder that nothing really matters, except the little things!!!..."

School Life...

My school😇
In most people's life the phase of school life is the best and the golden phase of their life which they won't forget and miss very often, same is the case with me. Being a shy guy it took me a lot of time to open up and that was the reason I had no friends as such but as time passed i got such a crazy bunch of friends who always supported me to improve on my introvertedness. School life was a mixture of crazy and funny memories which is I just can't compare to any of the incidence currently. I had a few handful of friends and these bunch of friend are the reason that now i have something called as school life memories. The funniest memory that i can recall about my school days has to be one incident that use to happen usually during my S.S.C that involved unfinished homeworks for days at a stretch and kept stalling my teacher that i was extremely unwell and was under heavy medication😂😂. The different time of events in school was a great reason for me and my friends to bunk lectures on the name of events😄😅and such moments are the one i really miss as the school life was ended.School may be hard,annoying and irritating. But admit it, you are going to miss it when it ends. 
School was a daily routine for us. In the morning, we're sure to make a fuss. even when the sun is still not up, here we are, awake at 6 AM with eyes blown up.....
I still remember and miss the lectures not the studying part😂😅 but the fun we had during lectures among the friends. From sharpening of pencil to broken nibs of pens, from eraser dust to ink marks and from primary to higher secondary we all grew and gained experience in the school life. I still recall the moment of the farewell when we friends promised to stay in touch, but now i meet some very often which have become like the three musketeers and some i haven't met for a long time.I'm very grateful for my school friends who more than friends now and always were one call away. I rarely talk to these friends but such a communication gap haven't pose any obstructions in our friendship. We always sense each others problem and always appears as a genei. While everyone was in the school phase all just had a feeling like, school is such a bore, its such a weary chore.Parents said,"school's great!! Now go!" We said,"Well what do you know?"(mostly in our mind😂😅)... At the end i can say it's really hard to sum up my school life but i can say something to which most of us can relate,some may see school as a torture chamber, Some cannot wait for the holidays in summer. But it depends on how we look at school. Honestly,Positively, school is cool!!💓... Some days I wish i could go back in life only because I can feel some things twice...

College days...


College days are about to end after a short span of time and now it seems that college was just started few days back and is about to finish, Seriously time flies so fast!!!!! Throughout my lifetime I have listened to people reflect back on their college experiences and explain how college is supposed to be “the best experience of your life.” The summer after my 12th grade I use to try and imagine what my first semester at the college was going to be like based on what I’d heard from people in the past. My first day at college had a great meaning to me as it was a beginning of a new phase. Being an introvert and shy student at the initial days of first year, it took a lot of time to have a conversation with anybody but slowly and steadily made few friends  till I reached final year had a few bunch of people whom I can proudly term as my well wishers and my soulmates to a certain extent. For this I’ll be very grateful to few of my seniors and juniors who were and still are a great support. Being a final year student as the dawn of new year there is a limited span of time for the college days to comes  an end   and thinking of that makes most of the people a bit emotional as we know these three years won’t be back may what the situation be. These 3 years for me were a mixture of both  sweet and bitter memories. Thinking of the last day of the college it seems somewhat a very exciting and bittersweet day at the same time. There is always a dream of such a farewell which will be full of classmates and the teachers who had an essential role in the 3 years of college and will have a life long impact in our lives, where everyone will make promises to stay in touch forever but then  We have to gulp the reality that after a short span of time we have to be prepared for a world beyond the boundary of college and everyone would be so busy with their lives that a daily interaction during college days will be missed as it wont be possible for a daily interaction or intense talks about life as the college days will end. After a short span of time there will be an extra feather to the cap of our achievement that is we will be graduated. There will be drastic change in our lives as nothing would be similar as compared to the current scenario. The morning college lectures will be swapped by morning office shifts or extended sleep, there won’t be a free or leisure time with friends or a long lasting talks between the lecture. My experience and knowledge from college is the most valuable and the precious one It is said that no matter how much you hate college but you will miss it in some or the other way when you leave it. In the initial days of college everybody was having fun but now it seems that most importantly we were making memories we can cherish for our life time. At the end I can definitely say that there are two best days of college one is the first day and another is the last day obviously and it’s hard to express the joyful memories and competing achievements we had been made in the 3 years of the college which has been coming to an end, but the inner me always had a voice saying that things end but memories last forever. “Golden days of my life won’t be back, it is the only thing which I’ll lack.” It’s really hard to forget the after college discussions, between lectures jokes and fun, creation of meaningless words which was of great significance between our friend circle and lot more!!!! Thinking and typing all these stuff have literally made my eyes teary to some extent. I can say that I am very lucky enough to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard!!….