Monday, April 15, 2019

Three sides of a person...

As we all believe that there are two sides of a coin that is the heads and tales, but in reality there are three side of a coin the heads, tales and the edge of the coin. Similarly we know two sides of any person one side is the person people see in public and the other side is which his close friends and family only knows. But apart from these two sides there is a third side too which no one have encountered yet and the person himself knows about it and mostly he wants to keep it within. Talking about the first side it is a side everyone seems to be in when they are between a lot of people mainly the unknown public so it's more like a more of an introverted side and an extroverted side to some extent, this is the side by which the  people generally portray your character, as they don't know the much of you and their opinions wont matter to you either. This is  mainly the side of yourself which everyone knows, I have my own personal instance like I'm super shy and introverted when it comes to any unknown person regardless of he or she  being friendly with me, i just can This side is basically the side which everyone shows in order to keep the other two side a secret in front of general crowd or other friends. The second side is the side which you show in front of your selected specific folks, this is basically the side of yourself which you show only to your close friends and family. This side shows the 80% of yourself which you choose to share with your family and close friends, due to this they tends to know things before you express or converse with them. The second side can be a more of an extroverted side and an introverted side to a minimal extent. As you can talk to your closed ones mainly your friends anything and at anytime, so this side helps an individual to share their stuffs with his close people or their soulmates. Basically there are lot more stuff which most of us can't share with your family specifically😅😂 in my case I have a limited bunch of selected fellow companions who knows almost everything about me as I can share a lot more stuffs with them which I can't with other people and are always a solution to my major problems, they the ones whom I trust and believe the most. Everyone has one or more such companions or soulmates💝💗... The third and the last side is the one which only you knows and no other people may it be your fellow companion or family knows about this side of yours. This is the side of yours which no one knows about and usually don't come out but when it comes out it can be devastating. The third side can be either an extreme side at a different level or can be a strange different side. Usually the person everyone sees seems to be a fun-loving jovial person in front of his close companions but deep down inside his heart there might be an emotional person which no one have encountered but when anyone sees it's shocking for others to see such a side as it might be a whole new person for them at that point of time. Similarly when a person become aggressive or angry due to some reason and nobody of his close people had seen such a change in his personality and it can be termed as a different personality or the different and new side of that person... It is said that these three sides are like three personality of a single person which changes as per the people he meets. Therefore to quote on this the Japanese  say  You have three faces: The first face, you show to the world. The second face, you show to your close friends and family. The third face, you never show anyone which is the truest reflection of who you are.

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