LIVE LIFE LIKE A BLESSING...

Waking up every morning is a blessing, which even people in some corners of the world are unable to experience.Live your life like a blessing and be grateful for each day instead of being dejected or unhappy about your misfortune.You are responsible for your life and you can't keep blaming someone else for the dysfunction in your life. It is said that "If we live our life like a blessing we know the our purpose to live a life with focus." Focused people invest most of their time in living a positive life instead of spreading negativity and criticizing others. God has given this life as a blessing and every life is backed by a purpose so we have to identify what our purpose on Earth is instead of  falling down because of hurdles in our way to reach that purpose.  Sometimes people are dealing with something worse inside and end up getting into depression and anxiety, it's not bad anxiety or depression happens when you think that you have to figure everything out all at once. But that's the real test in your life you need to breathe and stay strong and ultimately you become calm.It is rightly said that " We need to learn to want what we have not to have what we want, in order to get stable and steady happiness."

Our life is happy or cheerful only because of some fun-loving people around us like our parents,bunch of specific people who seem to be idiotic but are super caring and loving. At times when our parents decide something for us we take them for granted and end up being in that scenario, there are also some instances when we end up taking people around us for granted and doesn't realize their value and impact on our lives. When we realize their value it's so late that the person who once cared about you will eventually get tired and won't be back. So be grateful for each and every component which makes your life as a blessing instead of chasing other people or thing which were never meant to be in your life and eventually will end you being alone. It's good to be grateful for the life instead of being in regret later.It is beautifully said that "Be thankful for what you have, you'll end up having more and if you concentrate on what you don't have you'll never ever have enough." Life is not only about yourselves but instead we should be kind and helpful for the one who don't have something in abundance which we might be having no matter what as it is nicely expressed like "To fight for those who can't for themselves, 
To always share my light. 
With those who wander in the dark, 
To the love with all my might."
So ending up to a note that the moment you start acting like life is a blessing, it starts feeling like one.

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EXPECTATIONS...

It is often said that "Expectations hurt you the most and leads you nowhere." But what leads us to expectations is the "Attachment" as most of our troubles stem from attachment to the things that we mistakenly see as permanent. Since everything started as nothing initially we were strangers then we became friends I saw someone understanding me, but in real being fake was the real trend!!! Undoubtedly, a person comes in your life when no one is there in your life to listen to your daily curiosity and madness, they become one of the closest one's in your life and you feel happy and become jovial whenever you get the presence of that person, there comes a point you start feeling attached to that person and  "There is when we start getting the vibe, the sensation we are unable to describe. You desire the life to go this smooth, but this doesn't be the life's soothe!!"

Sometimes we expect too much from others, because we would be willing to do that much for them. Attachments to a person and making them important is a beautiful part but the pleasure in this beauty sparkles when the same person manage to give you the same importance."It is only perfect when efforts are from both the sides."One sided effort then will hurt, it'll hurt very real. 

The messages being ignored, the calls getting lesser, the secrets getting vanished! The reason you will be hurt is that you were being attached to the person who was distant with you, to the person you were paying attention ignores you and you were busy making time for that person who was too busy for you!! Sometimes we give too much importance and show so much care for someone who doesn't even look out for us like the way we do. "It's not their fault, it's our fault that we get too attached. Burning our self day by day by day, finally getting our feelings detached..." At the end stick to one's who shows the interest in you they might be your parents, your true best friends and your fun crew.Spend your life that you deserve with a cheerful face and a happy heart, rather than just shredding apart...

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MOTHER...

Mom,Maa,Mumma,Aai,Thayi,Amma-Multiple languages,multiple names but one heart which always care for her child and protect him/her from all the difficulties and odds by being the protective barrier. From her first touch we experienced affection,happiness,care and protection beyond our ability to express. A mother is the most important person in everyone's life as she's the person who sacrifices almost everything to see her kids and family happy. She's like an angel on  earth sent by the God to give birth,nourish and help kids into a successful adult. It is said that Mothers have a Psychic bond with their child which most of the times helps a mother to know whenever the child needs her and she's the only one which can catch our lies only by having a look into our eyes but she never let us know about that.In our busy lives we always to tend to forget to  appreciate the sacrifices our mothers make and cannot have time to at least talk few words with her for all the small and big things which makes her more lovable than she already is. It is said that "Flowers bloom to give happiness to others." Similarly A Mother is  like a flower that  blooms to give joy and happiness to her kids.
Mothers are not just who give birth to a baby but those who adopt,foster or nurture a kid are also a mother and possess motherly nature and feelings towards the kids. Lord Krishna had two mothers one who gave birth to him and the other one to whom he was handed and was taken care of, though she was a foster mother to him but the motherly love and felling was same."Motherhood has a very humanizing effect as everything gets reduced to essentials." The sacrifice and the efforts taken by a mother are rarely acclaimed but their love and care is so unconditional which don't demand anything in return. I can't compensate the sacrifices and care my Mother showered on me but i can just share a short poem for all the caring and beautiful Mother's
"You are the oxygen of my life,

On which my life thrive.

You are the one who has made capable for my dream.

You hear my heart and had heard my screams.

Blessed to have a guardian and a guide,

On those days when I cried."

We always talk and write so much about our mothers but never talk enough to her so at the end we cannot sum up the word Mother and all her sacrifices but as a sense of gratitude and to appreciate her 24/7 availability instead of showing love to our mother on specific days  we all can take some time maybe an hour or so to talk to her regularly which can make her also happy and satisfied...

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YOUTH OF THE VALLEY...

The youths in many cities have freedom to express their views and are fortunate enough to have basic fundamental rights, but the youths in Kashmir are almost deprived from all their rights and this make them live in dark. Due to growing number of antisocial activities in Kashmir the province is under curfew most of  the times and the schooling and normal routine of kashmiri youth have been disrupted. The various policy of government which have been proved beneficial in other parts of the country was agitated by the Kashmiris and the youth agitated by pelting stones and bombarding on the security personnel who were deployed for their security from antisocial elements, these encounter with the security personnel have resulted in loss of  more than 150 lives of the agitating Kashmiris. As time passed slowly the educated kashmiri youth who had a very bright future turned into militants and were joining an anti-India insurgency after some time the number of missing youth in the valley increased and it was later on realized that the youth were brainwashed and were attracted towards antisocial activities and joined antisocial groups which indulge in terrorism.

The issue is going on for more than a decade from now and has became a source of vote bank for the political parties but deep down the people especially the youth of the valley have suffered due to that and many of the kashmiri families have shifted to some other part of  India for a better future of their teenage kids and to live a safe life. This had loose their belief on the government and they didn't took   part in the elections by giving up their voting rights, which resulted in many youths attracted to antisocial groups and many kashmiri youths were the main mind behind antisocial acts which had led to loss of lives of army personnels. It is said "One rotten apple spoils the whole barrel" similar to that due to few people the whole Kashmir lives under curfew and many are deprived from their rights. Kashmiris describe a sense of daily humiliation together with the feeling of suffocation by a conflict that shows no hope of immediate improvement. The whole scenario once said by resident of valley stated as "The beauty of Kashmir is appreciated by many but the inner issue which led to the darkness in the lives of people in the valley don't bother anyone." Thus to sum up many democrats and lawmakers states that abrogation of article 370 can be one of the solution towards the development of kashmiri youths, but the people still in the current era are unable to speak up their views and raise their problems due to a thought of life threat to them or to their family. Do the Kashmir crisis be resolved in future? When will  the youth in the Valley live a normal life and their energy be channelised for the development of Kashmir? Do give Ur views...

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Females of 21st century...

In the mid and late 20th century there was killing and burying of female infants and increase in rate of female foeticide in many parts of India as people should feel that it was a burden for the family, being the male dominant society people use to value the importance of female less and didn't knew that the infant which they buried or killed can give shade to the whole generation. As it is beautifully said that "They tried to bury us, but they did not know we were the seeds which will grow and give shade to whole generation." As time passed there was change in the mentality of people and except few most people were of the thought that if you educate a male you educate a male, but if you educate a female you educate a generation. Slowly and steadily the dawn of 21st century reduced the forcibly death or female foeticide and there was increase in rights of females equal to the males. The females in 21st century now aren't restricted to household or family duties but the 21st century have made females much more independent rather than being dependent on anyone. It is said that behind every successful man there is always a women but behind every successful women there are just hardships and difficult consequences she faced during her journey. In order to provide females with equality that is equal rights, equal treatment, equal opportunities and equality in every sense as compared to males. A movement called the feminism began.

The feminism movement was so successful that females were given equality in many fields but there were some feminist who took the movement to some different path and were so hypocrite that they started discouraging and commenting on their fellow females. It was rightly said that " Feminism is  about giving women choice, feminism is not a stick with which to beat other women with." There are still some orthodox and low mentality people in the 21st century to whom the character of female is decided by the length of her dress. But  its the choice of women what she want to wear and in what she feels comfortable, the size or length of her dress does not depict her character its just defines the low mentality and narrow mindset of a certain set of people. Due to people with such mentality females become victims and are discouraged, as said by the a famous american journalist that " Though we have the courage to raise our daughters more like our sons, we've rarely had the courage to raise our sons like our daughters." 

Since women cannot control all the events happen to them but they can decide not be reduced by them and can rise fighting all odds. Laxmi-the acid attack survivor, Deepa karmakar- the Olympic gold medalist, the courageous lawyers, television anchors,athletes and many other women like these start revolutions by simply existing. All these women who succeeded in various fields by facing different difficulties are a perfect example for the quote " Hope rises like a phoenix from the ashes of shattered dreams." Females are no less than males in any sense may it be talent,skills or hard work  instead in the current era females are better than males in many aspects. A female poet have wonderfully depicted that how a female rise through all odds of the society as:

"You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still,like air, I'll rise.''
Thus females today in 21st century should get both gender equity and equality in order to increase the growth and development and to bring a change in the mentality of people who discouraged and devalued the worth of females.....

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A VOTE CAN DECIDE THE FATE OF THE NATION...

Like every normal holiday election day is not a holiday to enjoy but to cast a vote which can decide that in future you will enjoy or suffer. It is said "THE BALLOT IS STRONGER THAN THE BULLET". This year due to the increased awareness among the voters there is an increase in the number of voter coming out and vote. Till now wherever the elections were conducted across India the stats shows an increase in the number of voters as compared to  the previous Lok sabha elections. Elections are basically not just about who votes but it is more about who doesn't vote. It is beautifully said that YOU CAN EITHER VOTE BY VOTING OR VOTE BY NOT VOTING. IF YOU DON'T VOTE,SOMEONE ELSE'S VOTE COUNTS MORE. The ignorance of one voter in a democracy can cost the security and future of all.As compared to previous Lok sabha polls both women voters and women candidates were given more encouragement and reservation.Everyone should vote according to their own conscience ,as to what is best for the nation and should not consider other factors like caste or religion in that. It is rightly said that if we vote based on community,caste or religion we are making a mockery out of democracy. A vote is an immense privilege to decide who should conduct the governance of the nation which should not go in vain so each one should evaluate the past five years and then cast their precious vote.'Freebies for votes' is not the the way but instead each one of us should vote by  thinking of a long-term solution for the well being of all. To sum up there is a short poem which depicts the current scenario, 

here comes the most awaited day which will let us know how our future will sway.

The duffer, the bluffer and the man with the muffler, which one of these men will we have to suffer.

They might have the seats the two-seventy two, but the country belongs to me and to you.

And we are a billion plus, at the end of the day the onus is on us.

New beginnings...

There is always a reason for a new beginning sometimes you know the reason and sometimes you don’t. Sometimes you and someone else were only meant to share a moment of time with each other, sometimes friendship and relationships are not built to last forever. These people just enter our life for a purpose or to teach us a lesson, maybe you both needed to learn something from each other that no one else would teach you at that time and suddenly you just know its time for something new and trust the magic of beginnings. In life you will fall apart out with people you never thought you would , get betrayed by people you trusted with all your heart and get used by the people you would do anything for. As there are exception to all things there are exception to this too but such exceptions rarely occurs. But life has a beautiful side to it.💟😇 You will get loved by someone you never thought you have, You need to learn from your blunders to start a new beginnings. It is never too late to be what  you might have been… From new friendships with people that will establish meaningful and stronger relationships but the few ones remain constant❤❤…All these can help you overcome things you never thought you would get over. Everyone have some chapters in their life that end with some people at some point of time in life. But be patient and grateful in knowing that the very best part of your book is still under process and is yet to be written…

Three sides of a person...

As we all believe that there are two sides of a coin that is the heads and tales, but in reality there are three side of a coin the heads, tales and the edge of the coin. Similarly we know two sides of any person one side is the person people see in public and the other side is which his close friends and family only knows. But apart from these two sides there is a third side too which no one have encountered yet and the person himself knows about it and mostly he wants to keep it within. Talking about the first side it is a side everyone seems to be in when they are between a lot of people mainly the unknown public so it's more like a more of an introverted side and an extroverted side to some extent, this is the side by which the  people generally portray your character, as they don't know the much of you and their opinions wont matter to you either. This is  mainly the side of yourself which everyone knows, I have my own personal instance like I'm super shy and introverted when it comes to any unknown person regardless of he or she  being friendly with me, i just can This side is basically the side which everyone shows in order to keep the other two side a secret in front of general crowd or other friends. The second side is the side which you show in front of your selected specific folks, this is basically the side of yourself which you show only to your close friends and family. This side shows the 80% of yourself which you choose to share with your family and close friends, due to this they tends to know things before you express or converse with them. The second side can be a more of an extroverted side and an introverted side to a minimal extent. As you can talk to your closed ones mainly your friends anything and at anytime, so this side helps an individual to share their stuffs with his close people or their soulmates. Basically there are lot more stuff which most of us can't share with your family specifically😅😂 in my case I have a limited bunch of selected fellow companions who knows almost everything about me as I can share a lot more stuffs with them which I can't with other people and are always a solution to my major problems, they the ones whom I trust and believe the most. Everyone has one or more such companions or soulmates💝💗... The third and the last side is the one which only you knows and no other people may it be your fellow companion or family knows about this side of yours. This is the side of yours which no one knows about and usually don't come out but when it comes out it can be devastating. The third side can be either an extreme side at a different level or can be a strange different side. Usually the person everyone sees seems to be a fun-loving jovial person in front of his close companions but deep down inside his heart there might be an emotional person which no one have encountered but when anyone sees it's shocking for others to see such a side as it might be a whole new person for them at that point of time. Similarly when a person become aggressive or angry due to some reason and nobody of his close people had seen such a change in his personality and it can be termed as a different personality or the different and new side of that person... It is said that these three sides are like three personality of a single person which changes as per the people he meets. Therefore to quote on this the Japanese  say  You have three faces: The first face, you show to the world. The second face, you show to your close friends and family. The third face, you never show anyone which is the truest reflection of who you are.

Little things...

Great things are done by series of small things bought together but most of the times we underestimate such small or little things. Usually some little stuffs are worthless to some people  but they mean a lot to others. A conversation with someone special can make the day of an individual but this won't be such special to some other person. The fresh coffee, sunshine, morning walks, blooming flowers are some of the simple but yet the glorious pleasures of life. Sometimes we get so caught up in trying to accomplish something big, that we fail to notice the little things that give life its magic.The little things which that you consider your weakness are actually the things that people treasure most about you. Now a days making friendship will be small thing for many people out there but shy and introvert people especially like me it is the little yet tough task and can make me think twice about various situations which in reality won't appear. May be you hate that you care too much... Or that you wear you heart on your sleeve... But seriously some people think that's the best thing about you and such little things take up the most room in our hearts. Be faithful in small little things because it is in them that your strength lies and while it seems small but the ripple effect of such stuffs are extraordinary. Most of the people will term it like "The little things???" "The little moments???", But in reality they aren't little and can have huge impact on somebody's life. When people have something in abundance the importance or value of such stuff becomes little to them but such little things can eradicate someones hunger or can make someone's life better from the worse. We all have different little things that make up who we are, so we should not underrate such things and there is no need to change those little things. But we can choose who we share them with.... "Little things is thus nothing but a soft and gentle reminder that nothing really matters, except the little things!!!..."

School Life...

My school😇

In most people's life the phase of school life is the best and the golden phase of their life which they won't forget and miss very often, same is the case with me. Being a shy guy it took me a lot of time to open up and that was the reason I had no friends as such but as time passed i got such a crazy bunch of friends who always supported me to improve on my introvertedness. School life was a mixture of crazy and funny memories which is I just can't compare to any of the incidence currently. I had a few handful of friends and these bunch of friend are the reason that now i have something called as school life memories. The funniest memory that i can recall about my school days has to be one incident that use to happen usually during my S.S.C that involved unfinished homeworks for days at a stretch and kept stalling my teacher that i was extremely unwell and was under heavy medication😂😂. The different time of events in school was a great reason for me and my friends to bunk lectures on the name of events😄😅and such moments are the one i really miss as the school life was ended.School may be hard,annoying and irritating. But admit it, you are going to miss it when it ends. 

School was a daily routine for us. In the morning, we're sure to make a fuss. even when the sun is still not up, here we are, awake at 6 AM with eyes blown up.....

I still remember and miss the lectures not the studying part😂😅 but the fun we had during lectures among the friends. From sharpening of pencil to broken nibs of pens, from eraser dust to ink marks and from primary to higher secondary we all grew and gained experience in the school life. I still recall the moment of the farewell when we friends promised to stay in touch, but now i meet some very often which have become like the three musketeers and some i haven't met for a long time.I'm very grateful for my school friends who more than friends now and always were one call away. I rarely talk to these friends but such a communication gap haven't pose any obstructions in our friendship. We always sense each others problem and always appears as a genei. While everyone was in the school phase all just had a feeling like, school is such a bore, its such a weary chore.Parents said,"school's great!! Now go!" We said,"Well what do you know?"(mostly in our mind😂😅)... At the end i can say it's really hard to sum up my school life but i can say something to which most of us can relate,some may see school as a torture chamber, Some cannot wait for the holidays in summer. But it depends on how we look at school. Honestly,Positively, school is cool!!💓... Some days I wish i could go back in life only because I can feel some things twice...

College days...

College days are about to end after a short span of time and now it seems that college was just started few days back and is about to finish, Seriously time flies so fast!!!!! Throughout my lifetime I have listened to people reflect back on their college experiences and explain how college is supposed to be “the best experience of your life.” The summer after my 12th grade I use to try and imagine what my first semester at the college was going to be like based on what I’d heard from people in the past. My first day at college had a great meaning to me as it was a beginning of a new phase. Being an introvert and shy student at the initial days of first year, it took a lot of time to have a conversation with anybody but slowly and steadily made few friends  till I reached final year had a few bunch of people whom I can proudly term as my well wishers and my soulmates to a certain extent. For this I’ll be very grateful to few of my seniors and juniors who were and still are a great support. Being a final year student as the dawn of new year there is a limited span of time for the college days to comes  an end   and thinking of that makes most of the people a bit emotional as we know these three years won’t be back may what the situation be. These 3 years for me were a mixture of both  sweet and bitter memories. Thinking of the last day of the college it seems somewhat a very exciting and bittersweet day at the same time. There is always a dream of such a farewell which will be full of classmates and the teachers who had an essential role in the 3 years of college and will have a life long impact in our lives, where everyone will make promises to stay in touch forever but then  We have to gulp the reality that after a short span of time we have to be prepared for a world beyond the boundary of college and everyone would be so busy with their lives that a daily interaction during college days will be missed as it wont be possible for a daily interaction or intense talks about life as the college days will end. After a short span of time there will be an extra feather to the cap of our achievement that is we will be graduated. There will be drastic change in our lives as nothing would be similar as compared to the current scenario. The morning college lectures will be swapped by morning office shifts or extended sleep, there won’t be a free or leisure time with friends or a long lasting talks between the lecture. My experience and knowledge from college is the most valuable and the precious one It is said that no matter how much you hate college but you will miss it in some or the other way when you leave it. In the initial days of college everybody was having fun but now it seems that most importantly we were making memories we can cherish for our life time. At the end I can definitely say that there are two best days of college one is the first day and another is the last day obviously and it’s hard to express the joyful memories and competing achievements we had been made in the 3 years of the college which has been coming to an end, but the inner me always had a voice saying that things end but memories last forever. “Golden days of my life won’t be back, it is the only thing which I’ll lack.” It’s really hard to forget the after college discussions, between lectures jokes and fun, creation of meaningless words which was of great significance between our friend circle and lot more!!!! Thinking and typing all these stuff have literally made my eyes teary to some extent. I can say that I am very lucky enough to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard!!….